Saturday, June 6, 2020

The Virus Within Us

 Events happening around the world in the last two weeks have been extremely horrific in nature and deeply disturbing. The pain one human can inflict on another human both physically or verbally is excruciating. 

Floyd told those racist police officers he was claustrophobic; he pleaded them that he wasn’t able to breathe. Even then he wasn’t spared. While the whole nation was erupting with mass protests, the leader of the nation was busy tweeting rhyming tweets “when the looting starts, the shooting starts.

And then there is 14-year-old Iranian girl who was killed by her own father with a farming sickle in the name of honor killing.  

Police officers who are meant to protect us go around on a killing spree, families which are meant to protect their loved ones go on a killing spree. I just wish Post-covid the word “trust” would not become extinct. 

Abuse, be it of any kind racial, physical, verbal, child abuse, elder abuse, women abuse, animal abuse, body shaming and anybody who causes it should be thrown behind the bars and punished strictly.

Has lockdown caused the wild beasts so far locked inside our brains to run loose? When I hear that the numbers of abuse cases across the world have increased and most of it in your own homes, a place that is supposed to be safe haven turns into the most unsafe and scariest place to survive, I can imagine the plight of such people, especially children and the elderly.

The virus is looking for a host to survive but it is interesting that the virus may also changes its course and mutate to a less deadlier form when it realizes that its killing the host even before it finds another healthy host for its descendants to survive. There is hope there that it will eventually stop. But we human beings offer no such hope, though gifted with sixth sense neither do we have the realisation of the harm we cause upon fellow humans verbally or physically nor do we realize that we need to coexist in harmony with fellow humans be it family or society.

Most of us would have studied about ecosystem and balance of nature while we were in school. There are four different types of ecosystem interactions mutualism, commensalism, competition and predation or parasitism. Often mankind has been compared to be parasitic in nature where our species benefit while destroying all other species and resources that coexist in the ecosystem. But we have proved ourselves no longer worth of even being called parasites because they at least stand united for their survival. All we do is harm our own species in the name of race, caste, creed, religion or pure selfishness. Do we know what this practice of destroying one’s own species is called? Its called cannibalism.

Mutualism is said to be the best interaction type among ecosystem interactions but most of us do not even understand the meaning of mutual interdependence or mutual coexistence. We want the benefits when offered but we are not ready to compromise or offer compassion in return. Often judgmental, immersed knee deep in false assumptions, neither do we respect fellow humans nor do we express gratitude for all the good things we are blessed in our lives. 

How many of us even genuinely feel happy when someone we know has achieved something phenomenal in his or her life? How often do we support a friend who is going through a bad phase? How often do we ask our old parents or elders if they have eaten their meal for the day? How often do we stop and ask our neighbour how he/she has been doing? How often do we count the blessings we have in our lives instead of grumbling  about all the negative aspects of our lives? How often have we paused and judged our own actions before we commit them?

What scares me the most is about the little lives we as mothers have brought into this world? The responsibility now lies on us to at least to see to that, the new saplings find their roots not in this debris of greed and violence. 

Every morning there is only thing I wish for , is for the world to become a better place to live again and if there is even one thing I could do to contribute to this cause, I might have a good night’s sleep.

Tuesday, March 27, 2018

The heroine



"An innocuous smile that forayed deep and captured millions of hearts
A ravishing silhouette that augmented her screen presence
The acting prowess the made her the hailing icon of Indian cinema
A name that is intertwined with most of our childhood memories"

A woman who fought ageing to appease the growing demands and scrutiny of the Indian obtuse media.She clambered all the way up through dirt and gossips to lead a respectable life in the Society.

One morning the world woke up to the shocking news that this amazing soul has rested down in peace forever under the most mysterious circumstances.

What exasperated me was not her death but on the brutal aspersions that attacked the reputation and integrity of this woman who has had an elusive success in the field of Indian cinema.

Few weeks’ back I was surprised to see a few of my very own friends having a debate in social media if she deserved to be draped in Indian national Flag and that it was an insult as she has not contributed anything for the nation and that she was just an actress.

I m suffering from an intense ambivalence from the moment I saw these debates.
This outburst of mine is not because I m movie buff or an ardent fan of this actress but how younger generation in India is becoming highly judgmental and intolerant towards almost everything these days.

None of these friends I know have done anything either for their country. Most of us work abroad after the coveted degrees in engineering and science. Patriotism soars high in these individuals only during Indian cricket matches. Most of us visit India once in a year to meet our aged parents who have spent most of their lives earning hard to meet our needs.
And we jump at every chance to offend, instantly judge, compare and stomp at fellow Indians who seem to be doing better than us at work or in life.

Are we really worthy enough to debate if the late actress being draped in Indian national flag for the funeral is right or wrong?

She has acted in almost 300 Indian films, received accolades, state, national awards and Padmashri, India’s fourth highest civilian award recognizing her distinguished contribution to Indian arts. She married an Indian producer and lived in India 50 years of her life, definitely not a brain drain. She was fondly remembered in the memoriam section of the Oscars this year.

Why is not befitting for her to have a state honored funeral with her body draped in tricolor flag?

Why were such debates not raised when Shashi kapoor, another late Indian superstar was given a 3-gun salute during his funeral?

Anybody who loves their country irrespective of the lives they have led or mistakes they have done in the past, if they wish to be wrapped in their country’s flag after they are dead, should not be subject to any judgement from any one.
Respect the dead and grow up from those tiny statures you call mind…